Nowadays, dating and having a good relationship has become a real hassle especially for intelligent strong women. There are so many assholes out there for which you should not waste a single minute of your time.
We are not saying that dating is bad it can really be the best use of your time and energy, but on the other hand it can be the worst use of your time, energy, and life. There is no perfect relationship, but if the negative things overcome the positive then there is no need of continuing this type of relationship. Likewise you should not stay in a relationship if you are not happy and satisfied no matter if your partner will get hurt by you ending it.
Most of the guys have some desirable qualities like intelligence, humor, good body and looks, and so on. But, thus should not be the basis of a relationship as every human being has its own qualities. Every relationship should be based on trust, love an appreciation of each other’s feelings, and if this is not the case where lies and cheating prevail, then there is no reason for you to stay in such type of a relationship. You shouldn’t be dragged into such relationship, and in order to avoid this from happening you need to learn how to be satisfied with you being single.
First you need to be happy while being single and not to bother you to that extend to be with a person that it is not suitable for you. Once you establish your priorities and accept that being single is better than being in a lousy relationship, then for sure the person that you would like to be with you will come and then you will experience the real happiness.
In most cases actions are more important than words, if the person who is with you is not treating you properly, then there is no need to stay in that relationship and waste your precious time. Ending this type of relationship is also good for your partner as well because this is not a true relationship and ending it sooner will mean better chance for finding the right person for you and for him.
Buddha says this in the best way, quoting: “You yourself, as much as anybody in the whole universe, deserve your love and affection.”We need to love ourselves as we have limited time and energy in this life, and by loving ourselves we are letting other people to love us.