Positive energy is the striving force in our life, and if we are surrounded with it even the most difficult periods of life can get overcome easily. Negative energy makes us drown even more, destroying our will for something better. You must have heard the saying “surround yourself with positive people for better life” as this company is inspiring, inciting and the driving source for fulfilling life.
Positive energy coming from these people will stimulate us to grow and fight against the negative things in life. Their positive mindset very soon becomes ours and we are starting to perceive things in life in better way pulling us from the negativity and problems in life.
Just like a toxic romantic relationships there are also toxic friendships that can worsen our life. Therefore, evaluate your existing relations with your friends and if you conclude that they are toxic remove them from your life and make sure to focus only on the healthy ones as they are the ones that deserve your attention.
Friends are our chosen family, but we need to be careful when choosing them as when we got hurt the healing time is very long and disappointment lasts for a while.
Try to pick the right ones and if you are surrounded with true friends, then you know that they are real treasure that you need to keep it carefully.
5 Toxic Friends
If you have these five types of “friends” in your life, then try to avoid them in future, if you want prosperity into your life.
1. A Doubter
This type of person will convince you in the beginning that he will support your goals and ambitions, but eventually he will start to point out your failures or shortcomings. In fact, the doubter secretly hopes that you will fail.
2. A Chronic Complainer
A friend that complains all the time drains your positive energy making you miserable and dissatisfied as he or she is always dissatisfied with the things in life. This friend believes that something is always wrong and constantly repeats it to everyone around him. Having one near you will for sure make you unhappy for no reason at all.
You may think that you can clarify this person that everything is not so bad in life, but your efforts will be futile. This friend is not even aware of its negativity and the constant complaining and because of that you cannot do anything in turning him or her into a positive person, and because of that try not be near one anymore.
3. A Bragger
This one praises himself of herself all the time and needs a validation from another person so that t6 improve his or hers low self-esteem.
The need of telling someone that he or she is a great person is in fact a way of hiding his or hers insecurity as a person.
4. A Flaker
A flagger cancels plans at the last moment and has many bad habits, not paying enough attention to relationships. The fact is that the priorities of this person are just messed up, but this can be very frustrating making you nervous and agitated and something like that you do not need into your life.
You do not need a friend that will make you think bad things about yourself, especially not a friend who is not living in the moment with you.
This relationship is not your fault, and you need to avoid it in your life. Make time only for the people who want to spend some quality time with you.
5. A Naysayer
This person will always say “no” to your plan or a new idea. A naysayer will instantly list a few reasons why your plan will not work and that would be a waste of your time. It is just the way how this person is built as he never leaves his comfort zone and when someone wants to risk something in order to succeed is non-comprehendible for him or her.
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