Strong Women Would Rather Be Alone than Spend Their Time with Assholes

This world needs more strong women and for sure it would be a better place to live in. These women can stand up for themselves and will never hide behind the back of their man. They have their own views of life and always stand behind them and in most cases they are the ones that are right.

I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play a victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart.” – C. Joy Bell C.

The life of a strong woman does not evolve around a particular man she can be satisfied by being alone and will never settle for the second best. They find their independence as a blessing and do not rely on man for the needed stability and peace in life. Dating is not their sole purpose in life and if at some period of life dating is not so good they do not fuss about it but are trying to fulfill their life with something meaningful which will allow them to grow and become even better persons.

Becoming a strong woman in most cases is a result of experiencing hardships in life at even a young age. These women had to deal with them by themselves alone and in order to survive they needed their inner strength. Hence, being a strong woman is not something easy in life, these women are fighters who cope with every situation, and that makes them even stronger. Therefore, their need for a man is not their only goal in life and they will for sure never spend their time with someone that is not worthy of them.

Here it is what Power of Positivity states about strong women:

Strong women know more than anything else that taking care of themselves is a must, and to not look upon anyone else to swoop in and save the day for them. They have been battle tested and learned what independence truly means.

Strong women have never known what it like is to need anyone because they had to fend for themselves at a young age. Any strong woman you meet has had a few crappy hands dealt with her in life, but she’s risen above like the champion she is at heart, not allowing one misstep or misfortune to hold her down.”

Most men are intimidated by such women but in fact deep inside know that they are the perfect partners. These women are not trying to get anything out of their partner as they want someone that will bring meaning and value in their life. They are willing to offer the same to the other person and know the importance of the balance of giving and taking in a relationship. They will not allow someone to drag them down once they recognize the familiar pattern. They are willing to give but also want someone who will lift them up. For that reason, they are mostly attracted by positive and uplifting people as they have already experienced a lot in their life and do not want to go back to the gutters of life. This woman will be by your side whenever you have problems, but will never put up with the persistent complaining and toxic behavior.

Toxic relationship is not good for anyone and once you realize that you are in such you should almost immediately end it. These relationships bring only sadness and pain in life. Not to mention the fact that it lowers the self-esteem and makes you very miserable.

All your energy and love should be given to a person that really deserves it. So, if you have still not met the partner that is most suitable for you there is no need for second-hand thing as that will only make you more unhappy. It is Ok to be a single for a certain period of time, you can date, but at the moment that is not your thing it is perfectly ok to turn to yourself.

Like Buddha once said:

You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.”

Loneliness is not related to being alone as there are people who are in a relationship and still feel desperately alone. Release yourself and become the person that you have always wanted to be, and once you have achieved that you can start to work on a relationship with some other person.

Strong women never stay in toxic and unhealthy relationships, especially the ones that hurt them a lot. They know it is better to be a single than keeping such relationship. They are perfectly aware that they will do just fine by staying single.


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